heads and aches

10 February 2009

A week has gone by and the laundry is filled to the brim, a few baskets that needed to be folded and tucked and a couple of hampers to be washed. The sala is at its chaotic glory as always, to which my son happily maintains. Our Christmas tree is still up because the little one insists it is still Christmas and I don't blame him. I want to be reminded that Christmas does not happen once a year too!

Anyway, at least now the fever has gone but the colds and congestion plus this nagging headache is still here to stay for a little while. But I'm happy I am already a functioning mother and wife, to say the least.

Just as I am quite well my period came. Perfect! Hehehe!!!

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I thank you for sharing this dream with me! Thank for you your well wishes and I hope they will come true too for me and you!!!

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That one thing that I wanted to do for myself, to get my groove back, to be alive again, to see myself, to soar... I've done it! I'm happy where I am now.

I do not cringe anymore every time somebody asks me what I do. I proudly say I am a mommy and wife! Nothing wrong with that! Some look down on me with either pity, amusement, or bewilderment. These people do not know what I am capable of. They think that I am wasting myself. Some wish they can do the same, but can't.

My friends are happy for me, they constantly keep me grounded. They think my mind is beautiful when I think it's gone crazy. They keep me inspired...

On the other hand, there are some who think I am very domestic which is sadly not true. I am still a restless mind. But at least I am no longer that mad woman who refuses to embrace this huge blessing to stay home.

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

being a mom is the most noble of all profession. =) pasagdi ang mga ignorante. hahaha.

i am very proud of you. will always be. =)

konsuy said...

i am glad you are getting well. hugs to you my beautiful mind friend

photosandmemos said...

i wish i can do the same...to be a wife to adrian and cater to his whims (and mine)..and that i could stay everyday at home, and greet him when he comes in...and hopefully be a mommy to someone who thinks its christmas everyday...sadly, i couldnot afford it (for now),hehe=)

Anonymous said...

next time tubaga-stay at home mum ko kay ka AFFORD man ko ikaw dili.korek ka when you say they dont knw what you are capable of.dili nila ma reach if they only know!

Mommy Blogs said...

SIROY, i know. what took me so long to appreciate what i have? i was so much in the dark and caved in to a lot of nonsense self issues!

CHI, i'm happy i'm better too! phew daghana buhatonon uy!

CHEL, makaya ra na nimo! i'm excited to see your little one grabe gyud na ka pinangga!!!

NORMS, hehehe di na ko managad and besides i haven't seen those kind anymore. na apil to sa anod gilumos sa limot.

Anonymous said...

ah diay?! hahaha. jk. nah, pasagdiha nang uban mam. wa ra na silay lingaw or worse yet, wa silay ma-do sa ilang life. bow. =)